Thursday, December 24, 2009

The stockings are hung...


in hope that dear Santa will soon be here!

Gathering as a family....


Remember the real reason for the season!

Merry Christmas

Monday, December 21, 2009

Our day in court

Today the twins were officially re-adopted according to the laws of the state of Nebraska. Their names are now legally Candace Selam Spears and Sarah Fikir Spears, and they are United States citizens. This is the end of the road for the tedious international adoption process.
In the court room of the Saunders County Courthouse

Sarah and Candace posing with the judge up on the bench. They also enjoyed playing with the microphones at the lawyers' tables when the judge was out of the room.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

I feel safe



We had our first working therapy session at the Attachment and Trauma Center of Nebraska on Saturday. I feel so hopeful now that we will be able to get some healing started. Candace and I learned a song to sing together when her "mad brain" is starting to take control.

To the tune of "Farmer in the Dell":

I am safe, I am safe. Hi ho, here we go, I am safe.

I am calm, I am calm. Hi ho, here we go, I am calm.

We're supposed to sing it in a place where Candace usually feels calm and relaxed, like Mommy's rocking chair. It can be done while rocking or while clapping our hands together in a clapping game. We've used it several times already, and it makes us both feel more in control. :)

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

The weather outside is frightful














But the Christmas tree is delightful!

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Six months and the magic of Lite Brite

Today is the six month anniversary of coming home with Candace and Sarah. Here they are posing with their first complete Lite Brite creation. It's the same Lite Brite my teenagers played with when they were little.

They have come a long way in six months. We still have lots of work to do in terms of attachment, but maybe we're seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Or maybe it's the Lite Brite at the end of the tunnel... ha, ha.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The first glimpse

One year ago today, we got our first glimpse of our new daughters.



















We were officially matched with the twins the next day. I still can't believe how lucky we were. We are so blessed to have them in our family.